Confessions of the men who paid thousands to marry mail-order brides...

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3058748/She-spoke-sex-like-housework-Confessions-men-paid-thousands-marry-mail-order-brides-lived-regret-it.html

Quote:'She spoke about sex like it was housework': Confessions of the men who paid thousands to marry mail-order brides... but who lived to regret it


A new Reddit thread is offering some fascinating insights into the strange lives of men who have purchased mail-order brides.


The discussion, which focuses on brides from Russia and the Philippines and has so far garnered more than 10,000 comments, asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses.


'[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one, while another confessed: 'I could always tell she was uncomfortable. It seemed like she was just doing a job.'

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Ruse awakening: The Reddit thread asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses


One user described the process of 'ordering' a bride from Russia or the Philippines, where thousands of women are desperate to start a new life for themselves in Europe and the US. 


The fee to find a bride this way, according to this user, costs between $10,000 (£6,500) and $15,000 (£9,800), although others have said they paid as much as $50,000 (£32,700).


'Since a large amount of these foreign brides do not speak English, a person must hire a translator for phone and other forms of correspondence,' he explains.



'When a man becomes serious about a few women, he will want to purchase the girl’s address to send letters and gifts.


'Addresses usually will cost between $10 [£6.50] and $15 [£9.80}. A translator will also be needed for these letters which will normally add another $10 to $15 a letter.'


Several people submitted stories not about themselves but people they know, and almost all of them noted that the men ordered their brides because they struggled socially.

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Booming: Russianbrides.com (pictured) now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls

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Face value: Once a man has zeroed in on a woman he likes, he generally needs to hire a translator to communicate with her


'My father brought my mum at an auction in Thailand a LONG time ago, it's pretty weird and he was kinda a creepy guy so basically what you'd expect,' one stated.


'I mean there's a reason these kinds of guys end up getting mail-ordered brides. Sometimes they are just super awkward, other times they are total d-bags,' another wrote.


At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious 
Several men, who had presumably since split with their mail-order brides, noted that the sexual chemistry was lacking.


'She would cook, clean, offer sex, whatever,' one wrote. 'Pretty much what you want from your wife. But the passion, emotion, warmth, everything that makes a marriage actually work was lacking.


'You could liken it to a gold digger but it was much worse. At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious, and you might actually convince yourself she likes some aspect of you.'


Another found the opposite.


'The only thing I can think of is that she is very open about sexuality compared to most girls,' wrote one man, a 35-year-old who said he had cerebral palsy, and spent $22,000 [£14,395] to secure his bride.

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Just a chore: '[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one submitter
One user wrote: 'She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex.'


But then added: 'The biggest surprise was finding out that when his "wife" was sending money "back home to her family", it was to her husband (not "ex") and kids in the Philippines.'


Amid all the stories about disappointed grooms, there were a few sad accounts regarding the brides.


She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex 
One user wrote of a friend's mail-order wife: '[She] had a ridiculous amount of humidifiers in the home so that it could be more like where she came from. All she did was to sit in a chair staring at the wall looking very depressed.'


Another commented: 'There's way too many cases in which those girls looking for a better life end up in bad stories of domestic abuse and even murder when those guys start realizing that the girls are way out of their league and they start to meet new people and making friends.' 


Regardless of where you stand, the mail-order business is booming - Russianbrides.com now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls -  and shows no sign of slowing down.

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[Vas Deferens]

When your father takes you to a whorehouse to loose your virginity because you couldn't break a piece off on your own, of course you'd think the answer to your chronic social incompetence would be to 'throw money at the problem'. At least muslim cultures have the decency to have arranged marriages where both parties are willing participants. This is indentured servitude. Sad and pathetic.

[JustWinBaby]

Amateurs.

Really, the way to go about this is to host a beauty pageant.....grab the hottest ones by the *****, and if they don't slap you she's a keeper!

[Vas Deferens]

(10-03-2017, 02:46 AM)JustWinBaby Wrote: Amateurs.

Really, the way to go about this is to host a beauty pageant.....grab the hottest ones by the *****, and if they don't slap you she's a keeper!

Real men sneak into the dressing rooms of miss teen universe pageants.

[*Nately120*]

(10-03-2017, 06:22 AM)Vas Deferens Wrote: Real men sneak into the dressing rooms of miss teen universe pageants.

Real men don't even bother to sneak in there, they just boldly walk in.  By the way, can we all agree how disgusting it is that kids these days aren't held accountable for their actions?  Man, in my day if you jaywalked you'd be beaten to a pulp for the good of the land.

[BmorePat87]

Wait, most of these guys choose this route because they struggle with social interactions. They don't know how to deal with people?

Sounds about right from what I've seen.

[Vas Deferens]

(10-03-2017, 09:42 AM)BmorePat87 Wrote: Wait, most of these guys choose this route because they struggle with social interactions. They don't know how to deal with people?

Sounds about right from what I've seen.

Probably a combination of inferior mental capacity and less social interaction in formative years. Maybe they thought their athletic prowess in high school would bring them more opportunities than it actually did and ended up needing to buy a woman's love.

[Belsnickel]

[NATI BENGALS]

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[Au165]

I knew a guy who did this and he was basically a walking stereo type for the geeky socially awkward kind of person you'd expect that does this.