06-30-2021, 09:49 PM
(06-30-2021, 01:06 PM)BmorePat87 Wrote: If the spa's policy is to allow trans women to use the women's facility then it's not misconduct. There's no room for debate on that. If this happened in a state that didn't have a law surrounding that and where the spa did not allow it, then sure you could try to argue that, but that's not the case here. This is just an example of a woman who does not like the policies of a business.
I worked at a group home with 300 WIC dependents (children removed from homes due to abuse and declared dependents of the court) prior to joining my department. We used to take them to the public pool all the time. Being a male staff, and supervising all male children, I was, naturally, assigned to supervise them in the changing area. It always bothered me that some guys in there would just drop trou and expose themselves. Wrap a goddamned towel around your waist while you change. You accomplish the same task but no one has to see your junk. The kids would comment on it all the time, and some were clearly unnerved by it and this is in a men's changing room occupied solely by biological males. So, I can absolutely see women in a woman's changing room being displeased by a person with a penis doing the exact same thing in the woman's changing room.
I get that this is a delicate subject, but I think there are some, maybe many, people who engage in this type of activity just to make a point. I don't have a daughter or nieces, but if I did I'd probably share the same concerns and it wouldn't have anything to do with hating transgendered people.
