07-04-2022, 03:19 PM
(07-04-2022, 03:01 PM)basballguy Wrote: What would you suggest in the case where my ex told me she was on birth control (but wasn't) and that netted me a kid that I ended up raising without her. I had absolutely no say so in what happened there. She had the baby when I was definitely not wanting another.
The whole "it's a woman's body so it's her choice" is utter bullshit and a point of view I will never agree with.
Men most certainly deserve some influence and role in the decision making....whether it's an abortion OR to keep it.
Oh and my daughter is awesome and in her 3rd year of college. I got over my anger right when she came home. :)
Could you not have used a condom to provide added protection; knowing that even if someone is on birth control, it isn't 100%?
It seems like you're placing all the responsibility on her, and accepting none for yourself.
