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50 Heroin Overdoses In 2 Days In Cinci
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(08-29-2016, 10:41 AM)Belsnickel Wrote: Because it's not the only place, and it isn't necessarily all that drug free.
They're a lot more drug free than most places, and it's also punishment to try and influence them to stay off of them.

Rehab, people can typically check themselves out, and forced rehab people could just fake being better and go back on drugs when they get out.

It's gotten to the point where holding people's hands and saying "don't worry, we'll get through this together, you are loved," isn't working and authority tough love needs to be shown.
(08-29-2016, 01:16 PM)Bengalzona Wrote: Brad, I am using this post as an example so that all members may consider a new way of responding to posts.

We want more civil discussions in P&R (and throughout the board, for that matter). When a person uses a lot of "you" or "your" or "he" statements in a post or response (see highlights above), that centers the attention of the reader on one specific individual and their conflicts with that specific person and can be seen as an instigation.

Sometimes people make posts with these types of words and we mods usually don't say anything. That is because the context in which they are used is less inflammatory and/or they are used sparingly. In the post above, they have been used repeatedly leaving us little alternative but to say something.

I would encourage all posters to consider two alternatives: 1) Don't use words like "you", "your", "he", etc. in your postsfrequently, or 2) Don't respond to someone else if you are not able to do #1.

The alternative is to be put in the "timeout" box. 

Like I said, I strictly stuck to his ideas and beliefs, so how is that wrong?  It's discussing her opinions as how they relate to this discussion.

Also, please don't hesitate to look at the long list of personal attacks he has made against me and explain why they are ok but it's not ok for me to use his personal ideas in a discussion about said things.
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RE: 50 Heroin Overdoses In 2 Days In Cinci - BFritz21 - 08-29-2016, 08:47 PM

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