Transexual threatens to send a fellow show guest home in an ambulance

[Johnny Cupcakes]

(07-18-2015, 09:12 PM)StLucieBengal Wrote: Ok let me lay something out.   And the question posed is this:  could this be a reasonable set of circumstances.....    


Ok young man grows up hanging with his mates ....   As they get older he and his mates start feeling sexual feelings they go with their societal standard roles of looking for women.    His mates all have success with girls and get girlfriends....  Yet this young man can't seem to have any luck.    He spends night after night by himself because his mates are with their girlfriends and he doesn't have one.    So he starts hanging out with other guys who also have not had much success.     They bond and become close, so close they share feelings and inner thoughts of insecurity.    They develop a strong bond and become emotionally connected .   Having never felt this before they assume it's love.    And start to treat each other in a romantic way due to hornones raging inside and the need to let them out.  

Is this person gay?  And if so are they gay out of choice or necessity?   Or are they confused because they never learned how to have a proper relationship with a woman...

We had a group of dudes like this at my high school that had zero success with girls....we called them "the brass section."

Seriously though, in your example, if a dude still likes women but becomes sexually active with a guy, he's definitely living a homosexual lifestyle.  Is he gay naturally? Not if he's into chicks and only boning dudes because masturbation somehow doesn't work for him.  This dude is gay by choice, not by nature, like most gays.