12-26-2018, 01:01 PM
(12-24-2018, 03:03 PM)jfkbengals Wrote: The stress is now starting in my house.
Despite our dinner plans being set in stone for over a month, the oldest just told her mother that she and her husband would be 1 1/2 late because they just found out in the last couple of days that his family isn't doing anything until 5.
WTF! YOU'VE KNOWN FOR A MONTH THAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HERE AT 5, BUT NOW HAVE ZERO PROBLEM SAYING YOU WON'T BE HERE NOW!!!!!
One wrong out of me now, and I am a dead man because of it...
This is not a "husband/wife" situation. Even the wife should know this is not acceptible. You should have just started without them.
It is tough for families to coordinate Holiday meals, but every family should understand that they can not control what happens every where else. You just do the best you can in the context of other group plans.
