Bobby Hart under pressure

[Mike M (the other one)]

(06-28-2020, 02:13 PM)Lucidus Wrote: When you inquire as to how one twin could be gay and one straight, it feels as though that's as far as you've ventured into your query. It honestly feels like you've not seriously considered the question at all because you feel the question itself serves as an answer. 

Let's explore your question though, by asking a few more questions. How is it that one twin is very athletic and the other one is not? How can it be that one twin has a great sense of humor while the other does not? How can it be that one twin learns very quickly while the other does not? How can it be that one twin is sexually attracted to one type, while the other is attracted to a different type, even if both are heterosexual?

The answer, in my opinion, is two-fold. I believe that some homosexuals are indeed "born that way" while others prefer to be that way. For example, I have always been attracted to guys. At no point in my life has that not been the case. From my earliest memories of sexual attraction, females were never part of the equation. I have a friend who's experience was very different. At one point, he was very much attracted to females. However, over time, his desires and preferences would change to the point where he began to be much more attracted to men. 

Ask yourself this; why are you heterosexual? Did you decide to be that way? Did you suffer trauma that forced you to be that way? Did you become a heterosexual due to societal pressures? Or perhaps, is it just the way that you've always been or evolved to be? 

Being heterosexual, homosexual, bi-sexual, asexual, or whatever the case may be, is not a pattern of behavior; it's the natural product of your personal, internal preferences and desires. If you, as a heterosexual, prefer one type of woman over another, is that a "pattern of behavior" on your part, or is it simply what you're attracted to; something that you can't help or change? 

As far as the twins go. 

Personalities are developed in the brain differently. 
Athletics is a physical attribute, both will have the same muscle fiber.

Look at Robin and Brook Lopez from the NBA, both identical twins and play the Center position. But both play it differently. One is more defensive and the other more offensive. If you ask why? They will tell you they developed their skills that way to complement each other so they could both be on the court at the same time growing up. That was a choice they made while developing their skills.

In other instances one might choose to be a bookworm while the other chooses athletics. And then they develop their choice based on their personal and individual experiences. 

Everything can be the same, look the same etc, but the brain is unique in everyone. People react differently under the same circumstances.