10-30-2015, 06:51 PM
(10-25-2015, 12:55 PM)fredtoast Wrote: I am guessing that most people who do this have probably had to deal with a very ugly breakup in the past.
Perhaps the last guy she broke up with absolutely would not stop trying to "win her back" until she cut him off 100%.
Or perhaps a guy had broken up with her but then strung her along for a while giving her hope they would get back together.
Or perhaps the last guy had insisted that she just "owed it to him to explain why it didn't work" and then got extremely upset when she told him what a loser she thought he was. These "exit interviews" almost never work out well. The person being left always wants to know why, yet he never wants to admit that he was at fault.
I never really had a lot of long tern relationships, so I am no expert in "breaking up". But I can understand why a person might resort to "ghosting".
It could have been anyone of those reasons...or it couldve just been that she was too immature to handle a difficult situation in any other way. Even though she was mature in a lot of ways, mother of 2, good stable job, homeowner, doesnt mean they are always able to handle every situation with class. I didnt get the impression while we were dating that she would be capable of something like that otherwise I would reconsidered going further in the relationship.
Its been about a month since this started...Its been qbout 2 weeks since I last attempted to contact her and she certainly hasnt contacted me at all. So Im just trying to put it behind me although it still bothers me that it happened. And after this, there is no way I could ever ghost someone. Barring situations where someone is crazy, or just wont get the hint etc. I just know how bad it feels
