Hurricane Irma

[grampahol]

You're right. I shouldn't wish death on anyone, but she's not getting deported. She works in sensitive government computer stuff and has been a US citizen too long.  If she were deported she would likely be charged as a spy and executed by Iranians. 
Truth be told he should have left her years ago, but he's the type who was too scared to go out on his own and risk being broke. 
How many people have you known in your life who stay in a lousy relationship over being afraid of having to make it on their own? 
I've walked away from relationships with nothing a few times in my life. It's not easy and definitely not fun to lose everything you own, but it can also bring freedom to start over from scratch. There is a certain freedom that comes with not having to lug all your crap around and find somewhere to put it all. 
I came to SC with basically the clothes on my back and little else and now have a fully equipped wood working shop and a great relationship with the kid's mother.. I know now that if I lose everything I can reacquire it all over again in just a few years..