11-30-2021, 10:06 PM
Is dating someone to be charitable even a thing? I would look at that as "leading someone on" and as a bad thing, rather than a good thing.
A lot of people go through the vast majority of their lives without interacting with physically disabled people, so the thought of dating someone in that category never crossed their mind. Like how some people can't envision themselves dating outside of their race, religion, or nationality.
It is an attribute that limits your dating pool. Everyone has attributes that have that effect in one way or the other. I wouldn't let it bother you too much. Try to put aside your feelings and see if you can derive the intent of the author.
A lot of people go through the vast majority of their lives without interacting with physically disabled people, so the thought of dating someone in that category never crossed their mind. Like how some people can't envision themselves dating outside of their race, religion, or nationality.
It is an attribute that limits your dating pool. Everyone has attributes that have that effect in one way or the other. I wouldn't let it bother you too much. Try to put aside your feelings and see if you can derive the intent of the author.
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