(02-23-2018, 06:17 PM)BFritz21 Wrote: she knew he'd be in the next room and would be hearing everything and it's just not what a girl wants.

(02-27-2018, 11:57 AM)Go Cards Wrote: If he is a real friend of mine and was in need ?

Would have no problem being inconvenienced for a couple months even though it is obviously an inconvenience.

Especially if I have the space.

But would have to draw a line on the few months per that being enough time to figure out his new direction.

True friends are a precious commodity and would want to be one back. In ones hour of need is when you find out who the true ones are.

(02-27-2018, 10:44 PM)BFritz21 Wrote:   I even told him about how the timeline kept changing and he's just saying "I know," and asked if he should crash at someone else's place but he was quit to accept my answer when I told him he didn't have to........  he didn't even throw out an "are you sure?"  

(02-27-2018, 05:15 PM)fredtoast Wrote: Offer to wear a ball gag.

That is what I would do whenever I thought my squeals might annoy the neighbors.

(02-28-2018, 07:18 PM)fredtoast Wrote: Tells his friend he does not have to leave.

Gets mad when friend does not leave.

Either tell the guy to get out or don't get mad when he stays.  Saying one thing and then expecting him too understand you mean something different is lame.  That is the game women play.

(02-28-2018, 08:00 PM)BengalsRocker Wrote: Such a lie Fred.













I doubt you care about annoying anyone.

(02-27-2018, 10:44 PM)BFritz21 Wrote: I had no problem with him crashing at my place, but, like I said, I checked tonight and it will be a month on the first that he's been crashing here.

He kind of hinted that he knows it's an inconvenience and asked me if I wanted him out, so I just told him that it's not a problem that he stays but it's just not knowing what's going on and if he has a plan or not.  I even told him about how the timeline kept changing and he's just saying "I know," and asked if he should crash at someone else's place but he was quit to accept my answer when I told him he didn't have to........  he didn't even throw out an "are you sure?"  

He said he's looking at getting this apartment on March 5th, which he had said for a few weeks, but then I threw in "but then when would you move in" and he says "probably in the middle of March," which kind of pissed me off because it's like "oh, but you were going to let me keep believing you were moving out March 5th?"

He's in a bad spot but this is just bullshit.

(03-02-2018, 08:20 AM)hollodero Wrote: I was sympathetic to you until that very post. He asks if it's OK and you say "no problem". While at the same time fussing over it on an internet board.

If a friend ever helped me out and assured me it's OK and I found out he was in fact bitterly complaining about it, I'd be hurt and pissed. The one thing friends should do is to be honest with each other, at least when it's an important matter. You, however, refuse to let him know where he stands with you. That's on you. My opinion.

To throw some unnecessary sexism into it - you behave like some women would (how could he not have guessed that it's of course a problem when I said "it's not a problem"?). Be honest with him or suffer in silence.

(03-02-2018, 09:00 AM)BFritz21 Wrote: That’s the thing- I have been honest with him and told him how it was messed up that it started as one night and turned into a month, which he has been embarrassed and just talked about when he’s hoping he can get his own place.

Also, I said things like it’s not a problem but he obviously took advantage. If you’re talking about something a woman would do, there it is.

(03-02-2018, 10:22 AM)BengalsRocker Wrote: You just need to step your game up.

Do you crap in a toilet or a bag?

Leaving some  colostomy bags in some awkward places should end this joyride.

If it's toilet then jam pack that sucker with some Skyline chilito ass meltdown.

Make sure you crank the stank by upping the thermostat.

Done and done.

(03-02-2018, 11:35 AM)fredtoast Wrote: if Brad likes cooked cabbage that is a good way to run people away.  Cooking cabbage smells like ass.

(03-14-2018, 08:34 AM)BFritz21 Wrote: It has been a month and a half (first night was on February first), but he found an apartment yesterday with a friend of ours, so he's moving out tomorrow or Friday!

He told me and I instantly broke out in a

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This is HUGE!

Now I can finally have the girl over that I've been talking to (after dinner or having drinks at happy hour, of course) and I can start trying to have a relationship!  

He has also said from the beginning that he's going to give me money, which I don't know if I should take it because he's a friend, and I wouldn't have been as upset if he had just been up-front about everything from the beginning, but it's kind of like he took advantage of me.  I know that that wasn't his intention, though, and he was just in a bad place, so I'm definitely not going to demand it and not sure if I'll even take it.



Much love to my Who-Dey family!

(03-15-2018, 10:50 AM)XenoMorph Wrote: for being his friend you complain about him a lot behind his back...

I'm sure he didn't know exactly how long it would take when he asked for help