(03-05-2018, 04:34 PM)XenoMorph Wrote: hmmm.. Sometimes the best defense is a good offense...

IE.. shes being aggressive to keep you defensive..

So she probly did something wrong

(03-03-2018, 05:43 PM)HarleyDog Wrote: Damnit!

Wife is crazy mad at me. Wont go into why because it's a Venus/Saturn thing. Good Lord! It's one of those things where I don't realize what I did wrong and she is adamant that I am wrong. In the end, I apologize, I already know. For something I still don't understand!  I will do this for the make up sex I wont receive and 3-5 days of coldness until she gets over it. Good Lord! So now I'm going to find myself walking on glass for several days and washing her feet (in a doing everything I can to make this coldness kind of feeling go way metaphor). 



I'm hanging out with you friggers for awhile until I commit to this madness!

(03-05-2018, 08:09 PM)jason Wrote: I thought my wife was gonna be cold and shitty for a few days til she got over it... I've been outta my house for two months now.

1. 1.
   a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining.
   

(03-09-2018, 01:23 PM)grampahol Wrote: I was taught the silent treatment years ago . What I found out is women ABSOLUTELY HATE having that tactic used against them and if you can stand your ground and learn how to not say one single word and not smile AT ALL for 3 days they'll crack.. The only argument that works against wives is no argument at all.. I prefer the term 'stoic' and there's a definition that fits..
sto·ic

ˈstōik/
noun

1. 1.
   a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining.
   

Learn how to be stoic.. It'll take you far young man. .
When you are accused of being a prick and not talking just tell them you're being stoic.. It sounds like you're actually doing something useful. 

(03-03-2018, 05:43 PM)HarleyDog Wrote: Damnit!

Wife is crazy mad at me. Wont go into why because it's a Venus/Saturn thing.

(03-11-2018, 04:51 PM)Awful Llama Wrote: Mars.  Maybe, that's your problem: you're on the wrong planet 

(03-09-2018, 04:16 PM)HarleyDog Wrote: When my wife has pissed me off I say nothing and just go silent for a few days. She knows she has pissed me off and will ask me what she did wrong. I usually reply, "Nothing!" And continue being silent. Drives her nuts but thats not why I do it. I do it to prevent fighting. Fighting is worse than silence anyday so if I'm going to be pissed, I might as well take the high road and not endure the extra crap that goes along with it.

(03-12-2018, 08:29 AM)grampahol Wrote: Looks like we studied at the same university of not arguing with wives at the same time . 
These youngins who think they'll win arguments with wives and girlfriends are usually the same guys renting rooms right beside the divorce court.  Lol

I've concluded that relationships with women were never intended to be won. They're intended to be endured and the only way to win is through endurance. 
Winning the girl is an entirely different concept . That's short term stuff, getting a piece of ass, yadda yadda, but there comes a  time in every mans life when young, pretty girls just aren't going to be attracted to us anymore and that's where endurance comes into play and it doesn't mean the same thing as it did when you were 23 ..  Endurance at say...57 has absolutely nothing to do with how long you can screw. It has to do with how long you can go without losing your mind and beating up some woman.. I've lived this far without ever having to be in domestic violence court . If you can endure the stuff women throw at you and not lose your mind you win.  It's a bit more complicated than that, but those are the basics as far as I can tell. 
After all, who wants to reach 50 and realize that he hasn't been able to keep a woman happy longer than a roll in the sack? I certainly don't want to die alone and unloved, but some guys never figure that stuff out and still think they can compete for young women as old men. That's fine if you happen to have a few billion bucks to throw around ,but most of us mere mortals have to get by with endurance . Lol

(03-12-2018, 12:41 PM)Stewy Wrote: That's so......romantic

(03-12-2018, 08:29 AM)grampahol Wrote: Looks like we studied at the same university of not arguing with wives at the same time . 
These youngins who think they'll win arguments with wives and girlfriends are usually the same guys renting rooms right beside the divorce court.  Lol

I've concluded that relationships with women were never intended to be won. They're intended to be endured and the only way to win is through endurance. 
Winning the girl is an entirely different concept . That's short term stuff, getting a piece of ass, yadda yadda, but there comes a  time in every mans life when young, pretty girls just aren't going to be attracted to us anymore and that's where endurance comes into play and it doesn't mean the same thing as it did when you were 23 ..  Endurance at say...57 has absolutely nothing to do with how long you can screw. It has to do with how long you can go without losing your mind and beating up some woman.. I've lived this far without ever having to be in domestic violence court . If you can endure the stuff women throw at you and not lose your mind you win.  It's a bit more complicated than that, but those are the basics as far as I can tell. 
After all, who wants to reach 50 and realize that he hasn't been able to keep a woman happy longer than a roll in the sack? I certainly don't want to die alone and unloved, but some guys never figure that stuff out and still think they can compete for young women as old men. That's fine if you happen to have a few billion bucks to throw around ,but most of us mere mortals have to get by with endurance . Lol

(03-13-2018, 12:54 PM)grampahol Wrote: I hate to break the bad news,  but your opinions of my romanticism isn't actually important to me . You're completely free to worry about me not caring which by the way isn't the same as me actually caring .

All my exes left me in Texas....which is actually true.. Why Texas? Hell if I know . 

(03-13-2018, 01:26 PM)Stewy Wrote: Not worried about you at all TBH.  Just trying to make some jokes.  All I can say is that you're perspective isn't the only one, and isn't even the most likely.  And to relay your perspective as the most common and most likely, aspect of life is just not true.  And if the above is the way you live your life, and how you see it, then all I have for you is pity.  But since you don't care what I think, nor I you, then I don't know why you shared your perspective to begin with.  *shrugs*

(03-13-2018, 06:08 PM)grampahol Wrote: Not to worry Stewey.. I'm joking as well.  I'm in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful gal.. I certainly wouldn't show her this post. I'm just not a big fan of getting booted out in the middle of the night.  Lol