06-17-2016, 03:50 PM
So I don't have many friends that would be unbiased about this, since they know the both of us. So I figured I would come to you guys for advice since my life is a joke as is
But anyway. I need advice/help.
So there's this girl I've liked for a bit. We've talked a lot, hung out a few times, all sorts of stuff. So a few weeks ago I asked her out and was straight up with my feelings. She told me she felt the same way but she was already talking to someone else and didn't want to complicate things. And no, she wasn't leading me on or anything. Just never talked about us like at all.
Fast-forward to 2 days ago. Me and her have talked and hung out, but not as much. I even went to hang out with one of her closest friends and she was telling me how she liked the both of us, but that she doesn't want to do anything. But 2 days ago found out she was upset and asked her about it. Long story short, her and the guy are done talking. She's a little upset, of course, and we've talked but not really sure how to go about this. Not sure if I need to bring up the date, if I should back off, keep talking to her, I have no idea what to do in this situation.
So here's my life with this chick in a very short summary. I legitimately like this girl, she has a lot of the qualities I want in someone and even has pushed me a little to pursue my dreams.
But anyway. I need advice/help.
So there's this girl I've liked for a bit. We've talked a lot, hung out a few times, all sorts of stuff. So a few weeks ago I asked her out and was straight up with my feelings. She told me she felt the same way but she was already talking to someone else and didn't want to complicate things. And no, she wasn't leading me on or anything. Just never talked about us like at all.
Fast-forward to 2 days ago. Me and her have talked and hung out, but not as much. I even went to hang out with one of her closest friends and she was telling me how she liked the both of us, but that she doesn't want to do anything. But 2 days ago found out she was upset and asked her about it. Long story short, her and the guy are done talking. She's a little upset, of course, and we've talked but not really sure how to go about this. Not sure if I need to bring up the date, if I should back off, keep talking to her, I have no idea what to do in this situation.
So here's my life with this chick in a very short summary. I legitimately like this girl, she has a lot of the qualities I want in someone and even has pushed me a little to pursue my dreams.