12-30-2018, 04:36 PM
(12-30-2018, 03:47 PM)Beaker Wrote: First you say they are not mutually exclusive...which they are. You can not support a team with your dollars without constant b!tching. Then you say I am trying to meld them. I am not. I am saying they are separate....but not the only...ways to handle your displeasure.
Re-read post 72.
(12-30-2018, 03:25 PM)Beaker Wrote: Can you tell when your wife is upset with you even if she isnt yelling at you? Isnt her silence and disconnect sometimes a more powerful motivator for you to change than her b!tching at you? Can't her silent disappointment sometimes be a more powerful motivator for you to change your behavior, especially when she witholds her currency (sex)?
Its not always vocal negativity that effects change. And too much of it is toxic for any relationship.
If there is so much vocal negativity in a relationship, it's usually because someone is doing something wrong way too often. If that's the case, you better change in a meaningful way--or you could just be Mike Brown and reap the "benefits" of what you've sown.
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