04-01-2019, 06:10 PM
My advice would be to simply take it gracefully. If you don't really need the money, just put it with your other money and let it grow. Maybe do something nice for the family with part of it, like sponsor a family vacation and invite your inlaws to be your guest.
Besides, if you let it be known that you're not completely comfortable, you risk hurting people's feelings. My family is not quite as well off, but they give away stuff like perfectly good furniture, year old premium electronics, heck they even once gave my sister a two year old car, just because they wanted a new one. My Dad has gifted me more of his garage items, good quality stuff at that, than most guys ever buy, and most of it used maybe, once.. Weather I want/need it or not, I always accept it with a smile. Some of it I keep, some of it I donate to people that really need it.
Besides, if you let it be known that you're not completely comfortable, you risk hurting people's feelings. My family is not quite as well off, but they give away stuff like perfectly good furniture, year old premium electronics, heck they even once gave my sister a two year old car, just because they wanted a new one. My Dad has gifted me more of his garage items, good quality stuff at that, than most guys ever buy, and most of it used maybe, once.. Weather I want/need it or not, I always accept it with a smile. Some of it I keep, some of it I donate to people that really need it.
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