10-17-2015, 04:22 AM
(10-16-2015, 11:36 AM)xxlt Wrote: This is what is known as "normal." And, in the immortal words of Bruce Cockburn, "The trouble with normal is it always gets worse!"
Hang in there my brother!
(10-16-2015, 11:37 AM)XenoMorph Wrote: Boyfriends arent a problem... if there is no ring
they just require a little more work. Especially if hes a dick should make it easier to remove him from the picture.
(10-16-2015, 04:15 PM)fredtoast Wrote: Boyfriends are a problem. Here is why.
Boy meets girl with boyfriend. Boy takes advantage of this "safety net" to become friendly with the girl. Boy sees "friend status" as just temporary until until the boyfriend is gone. Girl sees "friend status" as permanent because those were the original groundrules on which the relationship was established.
But all that can go out the window if girl is really attracted to boy. Some girls are willing to date guys who are "just friends", but they are still much less likely to flirt or let the guy know. It is a tricky situation to navigate for a guy.
Finally even if girl does like boy and gets rid of boyfriend, boy still may not get a shot as long as they work together.
Meh...she knows he's an asshole and isn't happy. I'm not looking for advice so to speak, but she's cool. Honestly I don't think we'd be more than a hook up. She's a bit younger than me and really doesn't know what she wants outa life, but she's cool. She is smokin though....damn she's hot.
We just relate on a very cool level.
