04-26-2020, 03:45 AM
People deal with it in their own individual ways. I'll say one thing: even if something as final as death isn't involved, people should take care to appreciate their time with people they love and identify with. It goes by fast and ends before you realize it's over in some cases. All you are left with is memories of better times and the realization that you can't recreate what brought you together.
The key to me seems to be realizing what you have when you have it and actively acknowledging it. Take nothing for granted. Don't allow yourself to get jaded.
I'm an extremely negative and introverted person, but I've found that being grateful for what you've experienced rather than reflecting on losses excessively will change the way you process things immensely. Grieving and processing of change/loss are healthy and normal, but it's easy to lose sight of the positive. A mentality without that acknowlegement can beat you down, eventually.
The key to me seems to be realizing what you have when you have it and actively acknowledging it. Take nothing for granted. Don't allow yourself to get jaded.
I'm an extremely negative and introverted person, but I've found that being grateful for what you've experienced rather than reflecting on losses excessively will change the way you process things immensely. Grieving and processing of change/loss are healthy and normal, but it's easy to lose sight of the positive. A mentality without that acknowlegement can beat you down, eventually.
