Ghosting

[Browns Town Bengal]

(10-21-2015, 11:22 PM)Johnny Cupcakes Wrote: Almost this exact thing has happened to me.  

When I was about 25....maybe 24, I dated a girl for about 6 months that was the whole package.  She was pretty, smart, nice, funny, etc.  I was actually pretty hyped on the relationship, even though we never made it official.  Every indication pointed to her being pretty hyped on the relationship as well.

One day, we just quit seeing each other....all by her choosing, and without letting me know.  We would see each other 4 or 5 days a week, and talk on the phone almost every day, and then all of a sudden.....poof.....nothing.  After a week of getting no response, I left her a message on the phone and one on Myspace (lol) telling her to let me know if there was something wrong or if I needed to back off, and she still never answered.  She went from sleeping in my bed one day to completely cutting off contact the next.  It was bizzare.

It's not like she quit talking to me for another dude either.  She was roommates with a good friend of mine, and I asked a few times about her, and no reason was ever given.  Even though it confused me quite a bit, I moved on from it and ended up taking my future wife out on a date a few months later, so it worked out for me.

I have seen her one time since she quit speaking to me.  It was at the funeral of a mutual friend, and she came up and talked to me like nothing ever happened.  It was one of the most awkward situations that I have ever experienced.  

I still have no clue why she "ghosted" me.

Wow...yeah that situation is even more bizarre than mine.  6 months is a long time to be dating to have that happen suddenly.   Ill bet that was tough.  Im of the mindset to just rip the band aid off and end it if it isnt working.  Its much less painful than tearing it off slowly and ripping each hair out by the root one by one slowly.  

 I tell you, Ill never be the same after this.  Because even if I think its going well, there will always be that nagging feeling that Ill be be put in full on ignore mode at any time.