Ghosting

[Johnny Cupcakes]

(10-22-2015, 12:00 AM)Browns Town Bengal Wrote: Wow...yeah that situation is even more bizarre than mine.  6 months is a long time to be dating to have that happen suddenly.   Ill bet that was tough.  Im of the mindset to just rip the band aid off and end it if it isnt working.  Its much less painful than tearing it off slowly and ripping each hair out by the root one by one slowly.  

 I tell you, Ill never be the same after this.  Because even if I think its going well, there will always be that nagging feeling that Ill be be put in full on ignore mode at any time.  

It sucked for a couple of weeks, mainly due to the confusion and complete lack of closure, but I got over it.  I didn't hold back or change my ways moving forward either.  I figured that since I didn't know what I did wrong, I didn't know what to change.  Like I said, I met my wife shortly after and went about everything the same.  This time, it worked out.

To be honest though, it still bugs me occasionally that I never got a reason for the demise of the relationship.  Oh well...

Good luck man, and try not to let it ruin future possibilities for you.