Ghosting

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(10-21-2015, 11:22 PM)Johnny Cupcakes Wrote: Almost this exact thing has happened to me.  

When I was about 25....maybe 24, I dated a girl for about 6 months that was the whole package.  She was pretty, smart, nice, funny, etc.  I was actually pretty hyped on the relationship, even though we never made it official.  Every indication pointed to her being pretty hyped on the relationship as well.

One day, we just quit seeing each other....all by her choosing, and without letting me know.  We would see each other 4 or 5 days a week, and talk on the phone almost every day, and then all of a sudden.....poof.....nothing.  After a week of getting no response, I left her a message on the phone and one on Myspace (lol) telling her to let me know if there was something wrong or if I needed to back off, and she still never answered.  She went from sleeping in my bed one day to completely cutting off contact the next.  It was bizzare.

It's not like she quit talking to me for another dude either.  She was roommates with a good friend of mine, and I asked a few times about her, and no reason was ever given.  Even though it confused me quite a bit, I moved on from it and ended up taking my future wife out on a date a few months later, so it worked out for me.

I have seen her one time since she quit speaking to me.  It was at the funeral of a mutual friend, and she came up and talked to me like nothing ever happened.  It was one of the most awkward situations that I have ever experienced.  

I still have no clue why she "ghosted" me.

Ohhhhh man. I should probably just pass this post by...but that would have been such a good time to get your shot in.

I'm the kind of guy that will do anything for family and friends at any time. But once you cross a line, i'm done with no remorse and no feelings. I've always been the type to be able to move on and not give any relationship (friend or family) a second though. But enough about that...the point is, when she came up to you it would have been a perfect time to look at her after she said something and go "wtf are you doing talking to me?" and then just turn and walk away.