Ghosting

[BengalsRocker]

(10-30-2015, 06:51 PM)Browns Town Bengal Wrote: It could have been anyone of those reasons...or it couldve just been that she was too immature to handle a difficult situation in any other way.  Even though she was mature in a lot of ways, mother of 2, good stable job, homeowner, doesnt mean they are always able to handle every situation with class.  I didnt get the impression while we were dating that she would be capable of something like that otherwise I would reconsidered going further in the relationship.  

Its been about a month since this started...Its been qbout 2 weeks since I last attempted to contact her and she certainly hasnt contacted me at all.  So Im just trying to put it behind me although it still bothers me that it happened.  And after this, there is no way I could ever ghost someone.  Barring situations where someone is crazy, or just wont get the hint etc.  I just know how bad it feels

It's called a conscience.  Some people are born with it or raised properly to develop one.  Some aren't

Dating someone once or a few times is one thing to go out abruptly.

Dating someone for a longer period without giving a reason or expressing feelings about the relationship is straight up cowardice

You just have to believe someone of that low caliber will have other unpleasant traits creeping beneath the surface.

In other words this isn't their only other major personality flaw.

Good riddance. You just don't know it yet.