04-27-2016, 03:26 PM
(04-27-2016, 12:41 AM)fredtoast Wrote: No. I am not confusing anything. Averyone here is just twisting my words to what they want to say.
All I ever said was that I never respected a coach who just screamed and yelled all the time. There are lots of people around here who think a coach has to scream like a madman to be a good coach. I strongly disagree with this. Some of the best coaches are the ones who don't just scream and yell to motivate players.
My dad was strict with me yet he was still my friend. It is sad that some of you think you have to be an asshole to your kids in order to be a good parent. It is not a bad thing to be friends with your children.
So everyone here is in cahoots to twist your words?
This part about the coach is exactly why I made the comment that you just don't get it.... Coaches don't yell for the sake of yelling. Once again on field and off field are two different scenarios.
Name one thing that I am doing to be an ahole to my kids? And once again a parents role isn't to be buddies with their kids ..... It's to lead them down the right path and provide stability so they can grow.
If you find being friends with your kids is best for you then so be it..... But for me and my family .... And it looks like several other families here ..... We choose a different approach.
