04-29-2016, 12:04 PM
This is just all way too complicated with out getting exact details.
Procedurally, I don't know
1. Who the judgement was granted against. Brad claims, the driver, his parents, and the cemetery were all let off the hook I don't even know who else was involved.
2. What ruling the judge made against Brad that was not appealed.
3. Who's insurance settled and who went to trial.
Factually, I don't know
1. Did the caretaker ever give them permission to have parties in the cemetery.
2. Did the parents of the driver allow him to drink and drive without punishment.
3. Who bought the alcohol the night of the party.
As you can all see I have tried to be very balanced about this. I have even tried to give Brad some advice that could help him. But I don't see anything wrong with challenging his claims after he chose to post them here.
I would also like to give Brad credit for agreeing to help out his former attorney even though he is still very mad at him. That was the right thing to do. The way I see it this thread might even help Brad see that he was not wronged as badly as he believes. Harboring resentment for years really only hurts the person doing it. So maybe we can actually help Brad have a happier life from this point forward. The fact that Brad is still willing to help out his former attorney proves that he does not let the resentment control his actions. But the fact that he came here asking for help shows this still creates a lot of emotional turmoil for him.
Procedurally, I don't know
1. Who the judgement was granted against. Brad claims, the driver, his parents, and the cemetery were all let off the hook I don't even know who else was involved.
2. What ruling the judge made against Brad that was not appealed.
3. Who's insurance settled and who went to trial.
Factually, I don't know
1. Did the caretaker ever give them permission to have parties in the cemetery.
2. Did the parents of the driver allow him to drink and drive without punishment.
3. Who bought the alcohol the night of the party.
As you can all see I have tried to be very balanced about this. I have even tried to give Brad some advice that could help him. But I don't see anything wrong with challenging his claims after he chose to post them here.
I would also like to give Brad credit for agreeing to help out his former attorney even though he is still very mad at him. That was the right thing to do. The way I see it this thread might even help Brad see that he was not wronged as badly as he believes. Harboring resentment for years really only hurts the person doing it. So maybe we can actually help Brad have a happier life from this point forward. The fact that Brad is still willing to help out his former attorney proves that he does not let the resentment control his actions. But the fact that he came here asking for help shows this still creates a lot of emotional turmoil for him.
