Do we live in a Rape Culture?

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(05-05-2016, 11:03 AM)GMDino Wrote: I used that example as a reply to the "thoughts" in the OP.

I agree that if EITHER partner is incapacitated in any way there cannot be consent given.

If one partner of the other forces the other in such a situation it is rape.

I wasn't necessarily pointing it at you per se, but I still don't get how if they are equally drunk how one doesn't have the ability to reason to say no, but the other is supposed to have the capacity to deduce that they are too impaired to have consensual sex.

I mean, I'm chivalrous at heart, but in the eyes of the law I don't get it.
If there's signs of forced entry, or witnesses ok.
I know a DTF tag doesn't mean go for it, but I would think there'd need to be more evidence than an accusation and claim of inebriation.