05-11-2016, 05:04 PM
(05-11-2016, 04:29 PM)BFritz21 Wrote: I'm a public "speaker" with everything that happened and I'm completely over it, but we made poor decisions because he allowed us to.
If he had locked the cemetery, we wouldn't have driven (under a mile from the driver's street to the cemetery), and, if he didn't openly allow people to drink, the driver wouldn't have been able to consume more alcohol there that made him drunk enough to want to speed.
No offense brother, but something tells me you're not "completely over it".
You are still trying desperately to divert the blame to everyone and everything...except yourself. It's not enough to say 'I was only 15' or 'if this and that'. I'll say it again...no one made you go there. No one made you drink, party, have bonfires or get in the car. No one made you disrespect the cemetery, the deceased or their families. You did those things of your own free will, and you continued doing them until it ended in an unfortunate way for you.
Honestly, prior to the accident, how many times did you complain about what was going on or what the caretaker was doing? How many times did you tell your parents about it, or have them notify the cemetery owners? It was only after the accident that you found what was going on there to be wrong. I have a feeling that if the accident hadn't occurred...you would have continued going there, continued drinking and partying...and continued disrespecting that 'resting place'.
This will be my last post about it. It's your life, but it is troubling to see that you still don't comprehend your own explicit guilt in all of this...15 years old or not.
Best of luck to ya brother.
