What would be your reaction?

[hollodero]

What this woman said for me translates to "the guy wasn't attractive". There sure is more to that in that special circumstance (it seems unprofessional), but in general, that's the attitude. Harassment often translates to "someone not in my league dared to talk to me, that's harassment". By that, I do not mean to downplay actual harassment, which of course also is just too common.

I take issue with women complaining about men approaching them in a non-derogatory way. It's luxury whining. Missy got it right.