Mom: Why raising my son made me question what female empowerment is doing to boys

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(04-03-2018, 09:45 PM)StLucieBengal Wrote: Yes we step in.....   as for welfare ..... the single mother should be finding the best husband she can so her children can grow up in a home with a mother and father.  

The welfare option doesn’t solve the problem of not having a married mother and father in the home.

Neither stepping in on the abuse nor providing welfare solve the problem of the woman not having the best husband she has.  Both are temporary fixes that solve an immediate need without treating the underlying issue.  I'm just asking why we put out our suit of shining armor and gleefully play the hero in one case but get all "your fault, womp-womp" in the other.