Financial Dilemma

[WeezyBengal]

(04-01-2019, 05:09 PM)fredtoast Wrote: If you had money what would you rather do than give it to your children?

Take it and be happy.  They are just doing what most parents would do in that same situation.  They know you will get it when they die, so instead they want you to have it to enjoy right now.

If you were broke or struggling I could see you feeling "emasculated" but this is nothing like that.

Thanks for the honest input. 

That is definitely a good way to look at it...it just feels "wrong" to me for some reason. I will say, I have NEVER asked their family for anything in my life and im proud of that. They have given us plenty of things before (go on vacation every year, pay for dinner, etc) but never have I asked them for anything.