10-10-2015, 11:51 PM
(10-10-2015, 11:40 PM)Nately120 Wrote: First off, the statement "Your smart enough to know exactly what I'm talks about" is so awesome I want it tattooed on my forehead. Also, I can see how some stuff adults would just love to wave a magic wand and make high school dances a flashback to the 1950s, but it's only going to happen in the halcyon delusions of people who are completely removed from the situation.
It's not about the 1950's. It's about a standard of respect of decency. I had to go to these dances when I was teaching and they do cross a lot of lines. Every girl deserves to feel like a princess and every boy deserves the opportunity to dance with a princess. That's the point of these dances. To expose children to finer things. To make them wear a big dress and a tux. It's almost a crash course in finishing school: Showing them a proper date, opening doors, nice restaurant, These are critical in showing a girl what to expect from a gentleman.
Is it 1950's thinking to expect out young men to be gentlemen? And our young girls to be ladies? Why don't they deserve to be exposed to this treatment?