12-12-2019, 04:10 PM
I think telling someone they are "well spoken" is a compliment. As long as it doesn't have some kind of comment that you are "surprised" by that.
However if the person receiving the compliment (any compliment) takes it "the wrong way" it is incumbent on you to reassure it was not meant "backhanded".
All you can be in sincere. You cannot control how the other person hears and reacts to what you said.
However if the person receiving the compliment (any compliment) takes it "the wrong way" it is incumbent on you to reassure it was not meant "backhanded".
All you can be in sincere. You cannot control how the other person hears and reacts to what you said.
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Your anger and ego will always reveal your true self.