I think this is a good idea

[Mike M (the other one)]

(06-26-2020, 11:40 PM)oncemoreuntothejimbreech Wrote: I can’t find a link, but years ago there was a psychological experiment in which two participants were asked to slap each other, but only as hard as they thought they other person slapped them. If they slapped you softly, you slapped them back equally as softly. If they slapped you hard you slapped them back equally as hard. They could stop at any time.

Invariably, they kept slapping each other harder and harder until they were slappin’ the shit out of each other. Because they all thought they were slapped harder than the other person.

Lol ofc they slap harder. Freaking cheek gets numb after a while so a tap feels like a slap.

However that doesn't fit for here. Its not usually 1v1. In bfines case usually more like 1v4+. 

Honestly, should we ever have to say we are speaking "in general"? Cause most of us are and thats a silly thing to attack a person for and i thought we were all smart enough to know that there is almost always an exception.