08-04-2021, 09:24 AM
Sounds like he's coping as best he can.
It sounds like he has survivor's guilt (a serious issue), not looking to cash in. If he never under went therapy for the guilt, then all the drugs and such afterward are him unconsciously trying to cope, IMO.
If you've really moved on and accepted life as is (not doubting you, but we don't live in your head), then if he wants to talk about it, be there for him. Otherwise, I'd suggest letting it go.
It sounds like he has survivor's guilt (a serious issue), not looking to cash in. If he never under went therapy for the guilt, then all the drugs and such afterward are him unconsciously trying to cope, IMO.
If you've really moved on and accepted life as is (not doubting you, but we don't live in your head), then if he wants to talk about it, be there for him. Otherwise, I'd suggest letting it go.