03-11-2016, 12:02 AM
Best wishes on this, man. My father had something similar going on. His biological father left his mother when he was very young. He had a step-father that he considers his real father. He met his father only one time, when my father returned from Vietnam. His father had another family and his second wife didn't want her children to know anything about him. The first time his half-siblings knew he existed was when he went to their grandmother's funeral. Jaws dropped because my father looked just like his father (and I follow suit). To this day he has only made contact with the youngest of his 7 half-siblings, and she is the same age as my sister.