04-06-2019, 02:15 PM
(04-06-2019, 01:50 PM)Beaker Wrote: You simply cannot dismiss basic biology. Men are visual in respect to sexuality. If a woman wears clothing that accentuates or reveals more of her body, men will immediately be aware....every time. That does not mean that they will (or should) act upon their basic instincts, but primally driven thoughts will occur. I agree that women should be free to choose to wear whatever they want. But to claim that men shouldn't notice, or that they will not be distracted by seeing women dressed certain ways is dismissive of nature. Yes, they can control themselves, and are to blame if they don't, but they will all still look at a woman dressed that way and have sexual thoughts just as their biology dictates.
Your right. When I was in puberty years, there would be situations where I would get an erection when I didn’t want one. I prayed it would happen, I tried for it not to happen by thinking of negative things with no success. But a simple thing like cleavage was a bad situation for the dog. Nothing worse than having a hot teacher ask you to the board and you can’t get up, because you were already standing. It wasn’t my fault. I was doing everything to prevent it. Never really had an issue with girls who wore long, loose dresses to the ankles.
Most women dress to be noticed. The don’t prefer or wish to be boring. Might be why some don’t wear the same clothes twice to an event or meeting. They want to be noticed, but not with a boner. It’s wierd that some can be offended by the very thing they create. Oh well, can’t hate who we are just because a few do.