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(10-12-2022, 01:08 PM)jj22 Wrote: And it may be why he's been so tense on the field and not looking like he is having fun out there.
A lot to unpack here but you can start by reading...
https://blacksportsonline.com/2022/10/bengals-wr-jamarr-chases-baby-mama-ambar-nicole-asks-nfl-to-kick-him-out-of-league-for-being-deadbeat-dad/
Odd for her to ask NFL to kick him out instead of Applying for Child Support... Which would likely be lot
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(10-12-2022, 03:19 PM)Mer Wrote: I've never understood why young men allow themselves to be put into these situations by making poor decisions. Even as a teenage kid I knew how to prevent this kind of stuff and I'm not talking about abstinence. Of course in my day we were just as concerned with STD's as we were about knocking someone up.
He was thinking with the wrong head. If we're being honest most young men would do the same shit if they had Chase's status.
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(10-12-2022, 01:13 PM)Crazyjdawg Wrote: I can only see one text message image. The other 4 seem to have been removed from Instagram but, for the one we can still see, I don't see anything concerning. Sounds like typical baby momma drama, something that a lot of players in the league have.
A lot of us on the board deal with drama...yet day in and day out we show up and put quality posts in. We don't let it impact our posting.
Sometimes I don't feel like posting after a tough loss, but I show up and face the music...because I know I have fans on this board that depend on my insight.
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I watched the whole game Sunday. As I am sure most of you did.
Chase's mental absence and overall lethargic on-field demeanor was easy to spot.
The source of this stuff is far from reputable - so who really knows.
All i know for sure is he played like sh.it on Sunday - They also better figure out of there is any validity to this shit before giving him 70mill guaranteed
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(10-12-2022, 02:11 PM)rfaulk34 Wrote: Or she could just be a money-grubbing royal ***** and she's using the kid to **** with Chase.
Just making sure we have all the options covered here.
So...wouldn't all she have to do is take him to court and get a paternity test and then?
Seems like she wouldn't have to contact him like this.
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(10-12-2022, 03:19 PM)Mer Wrote: I've never understood why young men allow themselves to be put into these situations by making poor decisions. Even as a teenage kid I knew how to prevent this kind of stuff and I'm not talking about abstinence. Of course in my day we were just as concerned with STD's as we were about knocking someone up.
I don't think it is too far fetched to understand how it happens. These guys are in their early 20's, millionaires, famous and have models & porn stars tugging at their shorts and jumping into their DM's. I can absolutely see the temptation in that lifestyle.
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(10-12-2022, 03:39 PM)Mer Wrote: No. It's real. I believe in making wise decisions and even as a young man it just baffled me how some folks don't think of the possible consequences to their actions.
WTS, of course I've made dumb choices but when it came to things that could affect me for the rest of my life I always put more thought into those.
Fame and power are tough to navigate. The average person that maybe can get 1 or 2 girls interested in them and makes 75k a year can't fathom this.
These NFL guys that make millions, it's hundreds of women interested in them. And they probably feel invincible. And with their money, they probably don't worry about having to pay child support.
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(10-12-2022, 04:10 PM)THE PISTONS Wrote: So...wouldn't all she have to do is take him to court and get a paternity test and then?
Seems like she wouldn't have to contact him like this.
I don't think you understood what i was saying.
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(10-12-2022, 04:10 PM)THE PISTONS Wrote: So...wouldn't all she have to do is take him to court and get a paternity test and then?
Seems like she wouldn't have to contact him like this.
right doesnt make any sense.. (unless she signed a waiver lol)
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(10-12-2022, 04:13 PM)THE PISTONS Wrote: Fame and power are tough to navigate. The average person that maybe can get 1 or 2 girls interested in them and makes 75k a year can't fathom this.
These NFL guys that make millions, it's hundreds of women interested in them. And they probably feel invincible. And with their money, they probably don't worry about having to pay child support.
I agree. But that's also why these guys need to be extra cautious. There's always a gold digger out there that would love to get knocked up by a future pro athlete.
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(10-12-2022, 01:39 PM)ATOTR Wrote: Or just pay his alimony and be a involved dad
Paying alimony? They were never married.
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Women are good at distracting us dudes that is for sure.
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(10-12-2022, 02:15 PM)Wyche Wrote: Could be either way..... nothing came of the first go around. I just wonder if this isn't affecting him. You never know, unless you know someone personally, but he just doesn't give off that vibe. I'm not looking through orange colored glasses either.
I hope it’s not. But we gotta remember how young these guys are. I’m 35 and this would absolutely affect my job, granted I don’t get paid as much money as he does…
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(10-12-2022, 04:09 PM)ATOTR Wrote: I watched the whole game Sunday. As I am sure most of you did.
Chase's mental absence and overall lethargic on-field demeanor was easy to spot.
The source of this stuff is far from reputable - so who really knows.
All i know for sure is he played like sh.it on Sunday - They also better figure out of there is any validity to this shit before giving him 70mill guaranteed
If this is true it shouldn't affect his pay moving forward. This is literally what some pro athletes do. Larry Bird did this... Not saying it's right just saying it happens all the time. It's all just a slightly grimier microcosm of a slightly grimey larger society.
For right now I'm chalking up his on field demeanor to poor game planning, subpar QB play, questionable at calling, and general frustration. He doesn't know anything but winning and they ain't doin it.
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Chase said before he don't even think it's his kid..
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(10-12-2022, 04:11 PM)KillerGoose Wrote: I don't think it is too far fetched to understand how it happens. These guys are in their early 20's, millionaires, famous and have models & porn stars tugging at their shorts and jumping into their DM's. I can absolutely see the temptation in that lifestyle.
Yep, always been my problem.
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(10-12-2022, 02:16 PM)Dr.Z Wrote: Is this the same girl who was saying some pretty gross (and I mean gross in terms of the details ha) and personal stuff about him a year and a half ago ?
I believe it’s the same girl, yes.
(10-12-2022, 03:25 PM)bfine32 Wrote: Did I ever mention how much I like Micah Parsons?
Yeah, because at least he doesn’t have any baggage from his college days… :ninja:
(10-12-2022, 04:09 PM)ATOTR Wrote: I watched the whole game Sunday. As I am sure most of you did.
Chase's mental absence and overall lethargic on-field demeanor was easy to spot.
The source of this stuff is far from reputable - so who really knows.
All i know for sure is he played like sh.it on Sunday - They also better figure out of there is any validity to this shit before giving him 70mill guaranteed
You keep saying he played like shit against Baltimore but he was one of our top 5 graded players for the game. He didn’t put up big numbers, but some of that was on the QB missing throws, and the Ravens DB’s having to take penalties to stop him.
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Demand a paternity test to prove whose child it is first.
If his, pay her. He has the money and then get involved in the childs life.
If not, be done with it and move on.
Yet just don't see how it is effecting his game though since this has been going on since before last season, and obviously it did not bother him then.
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(10-12-2022, 03:19 PM)Mer Wrote: I've never understood why young men allow themselves to be put into these situations by making poor decisions. Even as a teenage kid I knew how to prevent this kind of stuff and I'm not talking about abstinence. Of course in my day we were just as concerned with STD's as we were about knocking someone up.
That's a lot of words for 'nobody would **** me'.
(I'm teasing, btw)
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