10-04-2017, 11:18 PM
(10-04-2017, 09:42 PM)StLucieBengal Wrote: First off we are talking about bullies and children. So adult bullies are not even being discussed. As far as children go..... being bullied is a great lesson all around, everyone learns a life lesson.
1. Bullied child learns to be resourceful and stand up for themselves or find someone to stand up for them.
2. Bystanders learn to jump in when someone needs help. Giving them compassion for fellow man.
3. The bully learns that if you act like a jerk and try and bulldoze people they will fight back and sometimes others will help them. They then tone down their behavior and become more inclusive.
These are all lessons children must learn and as we all know the lessons we experience are the ones we take closer to heart.
The bully could very well become a leader if they learn these life lessons and put them to work as adults.
(10-04-2017, 06:50 PM)StLucieBengal Wrote: Bullies are leaders
You know that thing you do? Directly contradicting yourself. You're doing it again.
