08-23-2015, 02:48 AM
(08-23-2015, 02:43 AM)RICHMONDBENGAL_07 Wrote: So it's not a conscious choice, but you still believe there is a choice being made? I have a cousin that is gay and we all knew he was probably be gay since he was about 5yo.
I know I never wrestled with this "choice", since I can remember I always liked girls. I suspect you never had to make that choice either whether consciously or unconsciously.
I def do not think its a conscience choice. That's why people think they are born one way or another. I think it matters when we hit puberty and what happens then. I would love to get a bunch of gays together and breakdown what happened with them at puberty. I think it would be interesting.
As far as your cousin being gay at 5. Not sure that's possible because we are talking what it takes to arouse them. Yeah he may have been feminine. But honestly I'm not sure that has much to do with it
