02-15-2018, 03:27 PM
(02-15-2018, 03:07 PM)GMDino Wrote: Not quite...but I don't expect one.
However I will leave it at this:
As others have said this is not an easy topic. They are multiple variables that go into such an act of violence and multiple variables behind the scenes making it difficult for us to do anything about them.
But just to put a fine point on the discussion you and I have had here:
Bullying is not a good thing. Kids fist fighting is not a good thing. Those things do not create better kids.
It's time to grow up past thinking being tough is the answer and understand that we can raise good kids who know that physical altercations are NOT the answer to our interpersonal problems and that accepting people who don't look or act like you think they should takes no more than just looking the other way.
Lol you will leave it at this .... haha.
Bullying is fine. Yeah it sucks that someone feels bad but we can’t lose the valuable life lessons for everyone involved.
If fist fights weren’t under no tolerance at school then we would see more which would give violent people an outlet to simmer down. So they wouldn’t have to ramp It up.
You can’t have males together and not have some sort of altercations. You see it everywhere. Whether it’s a fight, bullying, making fun of, it’s always a pack mentality and there is a fight to be the leader of that pack. If your answer to that issue is to make sure you raise beta males then so be it..... betas are great to stop violence the problem is they are terrible leaders.
You are entitled to your own views on how to raise men. And I am certainly entitled to mine. Stop using a school shooting as a reason to virtue signal. It’s pretty sad to attempt to use the emotion of the moment to make a point. Take the emotion out of your life.
